I've just deleted the "Indiscreet Personal Revelation" post from the database. It was making me feel bad every time I saw it. And it was having an even worse effect on Jen. Not much point in being made unhappy by your own blog. Probably wasn't a good idea to turn my life into an even bigger soap opera than it already is (and Jen's too). Moreover, things possibly aren't quite as dire as all that, although they're certainly in major flux. So thanks to all those who posted their good wishes.